Living Your Dreams at 54: Retirement, pfft, I’m just getting started!
It’s never too late to live your dreams.
Who says 54 means slowing down or staying where you are? Not me! It's the perfect time to mix things up and do what you love! The best part about dreaming big at 54 is that I’m not starting from scratch but using all of my past highs and lows as experience, to direct me and to live my passion.
This past year has been such a game changer for me. Since my early 20s I have wanted to do my own thing, be my own boss, but doing it through something creative. (I have done so many different creative hobbies over the years, but that’s for another blog 😂 (I worked out how to add emojis!)). I can’t believe I’m doing what I love now. My career has been varied over the past nearly 40 years. I’ve gone from office work to full-time mum, to uni student, to primary teacher, back to office work, to being a manager, and now I’m an artist, doing exactly what I’ve always wanted to do, being creative and being my own boss. I just wanted to let you know that it’s never too late to go for what you want. I may have to take up a part-time job next year to earn some extra cash but that’s ok, I’m loving finally doing something that brings me joy and working towards my dream, even if it is at 54. 😊
Each change in job for me has resulted from something that happened, generally mentally and emotionally. Some of these included being a mum, which made me reassess what I wanted to do in life, so I went to uni to get a Bachelor in Teaching. Then going through something that caused some trauma and mental health issues at a couple of jobs, particularly my last one. I took the last year off and decided to focus on my art and to start selling my work. I have only sold a few pieces so far, but I am so much happier. I gave up a well-paying job for my mental health and my happiness and it was the best decision.
What about you? You don’t have to give up a job to live your dream, you can still work and dream big at the same time. Maybe you’ve always wanted to learn how to play an instrument, write a novel (I’ve tried that lol), or even start a cute little vegie garden. Maybe you've dreamt of travelling to amazing places (I still dream of this - I have been lucky enough to travel and hope to do more), creating a YouTube channel, getting to know the local area by going bush walking, or joining a local walking group (I love walking through rainforests, so peaceful). Whatever your dreams may be, now's the perfect time to dust them off and give them a go. Be happy - bring more happiness into your life. You need it and the world needs it. We all need love, happiness and beauty in our lives.
If you’re not sure where to start, here are a few tips.
Reflect on your interests – What are your interests and hobbies outside of work? What truly makes your heart sing?
Explore new horizons – Don’t be afraid to have a go and explore new ideas. You never know what you’ll find or where these ideas will lead you.
Learn and grow – Embrace lifelong learning. I’m a true believer in continuing to learn and grow. I don’t think my art will ever stay the same. I love changing things up, experimenting and learning. You could try some online courses, go to a workshop, or even follow some YouTube lessons to get started.
Be kind to yourself – No matter what you decide to do, it’s essential you be kind to yourself and cultivate a positive mindset. Know that things don’t usually happen straight away, you have to practise, learn, grow, experiment, but most importantly have fun! You’re worth it!
Remember, age is just a number. Whether you’re 24, 54 or 84, the excitement of discovering your passion and bringing more joy into your life is the same. So, grab the bull by the horns, get out there and have fun!
It's time to show the world what 54 (or whatever age you are) looks like when your busy living your dreams. The world is your oyster, and it's never too late to get out there and enjoy it to its fullest. Just remember to take it easy when you need to but enjoy!
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